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Please carefully read the Terms of Use below before participating as a Member. In becoming a Member you undertake to comply with these Terms of Use. If you do not accept these Terms of Use you should not register.

This website is operated by Alder Ltd trading as Forbidden Fruit Dating whose trading address is Albion house, Wathen Road, Dorking, Surrey RH4 1JU.

Forbidden Fruit Dating provides online adult dating services and tools for Members as well as forums for discussion and commentaries to subscribers through the website (“the Site”) and other means of distribution (“the Services”). Some features of the Services can be accessed free of charge. Other features are paid for by Members, who pay through subscription as detailed from time to time on the website.

Forbidden Fruit Dating may offer additional services or revise the scope of the Services at its absolute discretion and with or without notice, and these Terms of Use will apply to all additional or revised Services. Forbidden Fruit Dating also reserves the right to stop offering the Services without penalty.

Use of Website

In order to be a Member it is necessary to register and subscribe to Services under these Terms of Use. You must be at least 18 years of age and you must fully truthfully and accurately complete all mandatory fields on the registration form. Registration for one or more Services, as well as use of this website, implies full and complete acceptance of these Terms of Use by the Member and acknowledgement that you are bound by all clauses of the Terms of Use and that you represent and warrant that you have the right, authority and capacity to enter into the Terms of Use and to abide by all of its terms and conditions. Please print and keep a copy of this agreement for your records.

Forbidden Fruit Dating reserves the right, at any time, to change or modify the terms and conditions applicable to the Services. Such changes will become effective upon notification, which we will effect by posting revised Terms of Use on this website which you can access at any time using the "Terms of Use" link. Your continued use of our service after notification of such a change has been posted shall be deemed to constitute acceptance by you of any such changes, modifications, additions or deletions. You agree to review this agreement periodically to be aware of any such revisions.

Right to Cancel

The Member is informed that under the United Kingdom Consumer Protection (Distance Selling) Regulations 2000 you enjoy a period of seven working days from the time you accept the Services to exercise your right of withdrawal, without penalty and without the need to provide any reason. However, the right of withdrawal may no longer be exercised once you have accessed the Services.

Code of Conduct of Member

Should you use the Site in a manner deemed by Forbidden Fruit Dating at its absolute discretion contrary to its original purpose or interest or in contravention of any of the terms of this agreement Forbidden Fruit Dating will terminate your Member account. No liability for any loss will be borne by Forbidden Fruit Dating.

You agree that you will not post any content on the Site, transmit any content to others, communicate any content, provide links to any content, or otherwise engage in any activity on the Site or through the Services that:

  1. impersonates or otherwise misrepresents affiliation, connection or association with, any person or entity;
  2. discloses any personal or confidential information of any person or organisation without first obtaining their consent or solicits another person's personal information for commercial or unlawful purposes;
  3. solicits or requests personal information from anyone under the age of 18 or solicits passwords for unlawful purposes;
  4. contains any material which is technically harmful (including, without limitation, computer viruses, logic bombs, Trojan horses, worms, harmful components, corrupted data or other malicious software or harmful data);
  5. promotes racism, bigotry, hatred or physical harm against any group or individual;
  6. promotes or enables illegal or unlawful activities;
  7. is intended to harass, annoy, threaten or intimidate any other members or other people or organisations;
  8. is defamatory, inaccurate, obscene, indecent, seditious, offensive, pornographic, abusive, liable to incite racial hatred, discriminatory, inflammatory, blasphemous, in breach of confidence, in breach of privacy or which may cause annoyance or inconvenience;
  9. is deliberately misleading or fraudulent;
  10. contains others' copyrighted content (such as music, videos, photographs, images etc) without first obtaining their consent;
  11. uses the Site or Services for chain letters, junk mail or spam e-mails;
  12. advertises or solicits any member to buy or sell any products or services;
  13. interferes or disrupts networks connected to the Site or attempts to interfere with the proper functioning of the Site (including imposing an unreasonable load on the technical infrastructure used to operate the Site); or
  14. contains any material which may infringe or violate any third party's rights.

You are solely responsible for, and assume all liability regarding the information and content you post on the Site, the information and content you post, transmit, publish, or otherwise make available through the Site and your interactions with other members through the Site.


While Forbidden Fruit Dating cannot review every message or other material posted or sent by users of the Service, and are not responsible for any content of these messages or materials, Forbidden Fruit Dating reserves the right, but are not obligated, to delete, move, or edit messages or materials, including without limitation profiles, public postings and messages, that Forbidden Fruit Dating, in its sole discretion, deem to violate the Code of Conduct set out above or any other applicable content guidelines, or to be otherwise unacceptable. You shall remain solely responsible for the content of profiles, public postings, messages and other materials you may upload to the Service or users of the Service.

Member Indemnity

The Member is solely responsible for the maintenance of the confidentiality of the Member’s log in details. The Member shall be solely liable for the use of any identification information by third parties or for the actions or statements made through the Member's account by the Member or by a third party, whether these be fraudulent or not. You hereby agree to hold Forbidden Fruit Dating harmless against all claims or damages relating to the identification information or the actions or statements made through the Member's account (whether fraudulent or not). In addition, as Forbidden Fruit Dating does not have the obligation or the technical means to check the identity of every person registered with its Services, Forbidden Fruit Dating is not liable in the event a Member's identity is used by someone else or is inaccurate, false or misleading in any way. If you have reason to believe that another person is using your Member identification information or account, you must inform Forbidden Fruit Dating immediately.

Forbidden Fruit Dating shall not be held liable for false declarations made by a Member. Therefore, it is imperative that you take reasonable precautions when arranging to meet up with another Member. Forbidden Fruit Dating shall not be held liable for any consequences of meetings between Members and/or non-Members as a consequence of the use of this website and Services. In addition, on a first date, it is recommended that you tell someone close to you and choose a public place.

Forbidden Fruit Dating cannot ensure the security or privacy of information you provide through the Internet and your email messages, and you hereby release Forbidden Fruit Dating from any and all liability in connection with the use of such information by other parties. Forbidden Fruit Dating reminds its Members that they are prohibited from using the Services to disclose information that allows them to be identified, such as last names, mailing/email addresses or telephone numbers.

Forbidden Fruit Dating cannot assume any responsibility for the content of messages sent by other users of the Service, and you release us from any and all liability in connection with the contents of any communications you may receive from other users. Forbidden Fruit Dating cannot guarantee, and assume no responsibility for verifying, the accuracy of the information provided by other Members.

You may not use the Services for any unlawful purpose. If you use this service unlawfully Forbidden Fruit Dating will pass along all information to law enforcement. Forbidden Fruit Dating may refuse to grant you an ID or nickname that impersonates someone else, is protected by trade-mark or proprietary law, or is vulgar or otherwise offensive, as determined by us in our sole discretion.

Termination For Non Use

For security and quality purposes Forbidden Fruit Dating may deactivate the accounts of Members who have not used the Service for a period of 6 months or more, and for whom no subscription remains valid. This six-month period referred to above shall begin on the date that the subscription term expires.


A Member may at any time and without the need to provide any reason end their registration by requesting the closure of their account by contacting Forbidden Fruit Dating at Such request shall be deemed effective from the first working day after receipt by Forbidden Fruit Dating. Such request does not trigger reimbursement of any time remaining on the Members’ subscription. Without prejudice to the other provisions hereof, where the Member commits a serious breach we reserve the right to terminate their membership without prior warning or notification without prejudice to any damages Forbidden Fruit Dating may claim from the Member. The Member will be informed by email of the termination of their account. Data relating to the Member will be destroyed at their request or at the expiration of the legal time period following termination of the account.

Limitation of Liability

To the maximum extent permitted by law, in no event will Forbidden Fruit Dating, its employees agents or third parties be liable for any direct, indirect or consequential loss or damage arising out of or relating, directly or indirectly, to the use or inability to use the Site or Services, including, without limitation, loss of income or revenue, loss of corruption of data or programs, loss of goodwill and loss of anticipated savings, even if Forbidden Fruit Dating knows or has been advised of the possibility of such loss arising.

To the maximum extent permitted by applicable law, in no event will Forbidden Fruit Dating its employees agents or third parties be liable for any claims, losses or damages whatsoever, whether direct, indirect, general, special, compensatory, consequential, and/or incidental, arising out of or relating to the conduct of you or anyone else in connection with the use of the Site or Services, including without limitation, bodily injury, emotional distress, and/or any other claims, losses or damages resulting from communications or meetings with other users of the Site. This includes any claims, losses or damages arising from the conduct of Members who have registered under false pretences or who attempt to defraud or harm you.

Forbidden Fruit Dating's total liability to you in connection with these terms of use or the use of the Services or the Site shall be limited as to either: (i) the fees paid by you to Forbidden Fruit Dating for use of the Services; or (ii) £50 if you have not paid Forbidden Fruit Dating for the use of any Services.

Nothing in these terms of use will limit or exclude Forbidden Fruit Dating's liability for: (i) death or personal injury arising from Forbidden Fruit Dating's negligence; or (ii) fraud or fraudulent misrepresentations made by Forbidden Fruit Dating.

You hereby agree to indemnify, defend and hold harmless Forbidden Fruit Dating and all owners, agents, information providers, affiliates, licensors and licensees (collectively, the "Indemnified Parties") from and against any and all liability and costs, including, without limitation, reasonable legal fees, incurred by the Indemnified Parties in connection with any claim arising out of your use of the Site and Services or any breach by you of this Agreement or the foregoing representations, warranties and covenants. You shall cooperate as fully as reasonably required in the defense of any such claim. Forbidden Fruit Dating reserves the right, at its own expense, to assume the exclusive defense and control of any matter subject to indemnification by you.

Content of Website

The Member grants Forbidden Fruit Dating a licence to use the intellectual property rights attached to the content provided by the Member for the purpose of broadcasting on the Forbidden Fruit Dating Site.

This licence in particular incorporates the right for Forbidden Fruit Dating to reproduce, represent, adapt, translate, scan, use for publicity purposes, commercial or non-commercial, sub-licence or assign the content contributed by or concerning the Member on all or part of the Services and/or in mailings and, in a general manner, on all distribution media, in particular electronic.

These rights are worldwide and exist for the entirety of the agreement set out in these terms and conditions between the Member and Forbidden Fruit Dating. The Member is prohibited from copying, reproducing or otherwise using for any purpose the content relating to other Members, except for the explicit requirements for usage of the Services for the Member's own strictly personal and private use.


These terms of use and the documents referred to in them shall be governed and construed in accordance with English law. Any disputes relating to these terms of use, the documents referred to in them or the Site or the Services will be subject to the exclusive jurisdiction of the English courts.

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